LADIES FIRST.
It’s ok to be rough, rowdy and dirty when it comes to sex. But when making a woman orgasm, you have to go slow and be gentle. A woman’s body is designed to be gentle with so you got to play it soft. Massage, foreplay, direct stimulation and even talking can make a woman reach orgasm.
So, before you start poking and prodding in all the wrong places, learn all there is to know about the female orgasm – how it happens, and most importantly, how to make it happen.
How to give it to her:
- Explore her body during foreplay. Avoid the genitals and go easy on the breasts for a good 10-15 minutes.
- Let you fingers do the walking. Use your index and middle fingers to make rhythmic upside-down gestures along her vaginal entrance.
- Use your tongue. Lick her starting with the flat part of the tongue and ending with the tip.
- Press the shaft of your penis against her clitoris and gently thrust between the folds of her labia without ever entering her.
- Now, it’s time to hit it directly.
According to research, 75% of men ejaculate within two minutes. Women require a longer time to reach orgasm.
Most women need about 20 minutes of clitoral or G-spot stimulation to hit the jackpot.
I like slow and gentle. I like it when a guy or girl would start touching and caressing the outside of my panty. Slowly inserting the fingers through the side of my panty and continue touching in a circular motion. By now I’m really, really wet . He removes my panty and would start kissing my legs up to my love-button(clitoris). I want his soft lips to play around it. This will give me a mind-blowing orgasm and I’ll be all the more eager to go down on him to return the favor.
When it comes to female orgasm, most guys are clueless. There’s only one rule to remember in satisfying a woman – LADIES FIRST.
anjo
October 16, 2009 at 2:22 PM
nice 1 galing dame matutunan d2
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kif up the good work
Vinz
October 17, 2009 at 4:28 PM
Who didn’t knew this… hehehe.. But let me tell you I have know many women who could get a Orgasm within 5 to 10 min… Even faster. But most women who has never experience or dont know how to get an Orgasm is because they dont know their body.. Every woman have their favorite position that makes them cum faster than other positions. Thats a fact too… hehehe… Keep it up guys.. Keep cuming.. hehehe
angel
October 19, 2009 at 9:01 AM
yeah, your right Vinz i agree sa sinabi mo…
womens need to concentrate for what their doing. and don’t hesitate to tell to your partner what position you want for you to satisfy….
ivan
May 9, 2011 at 4:06 PM
lol kasarapan dapat
phantomlord
October 16, 2009 at 2:22 PM
nice tips. hope i can do that to u someday. LOL
Philip Sia
October 16, 2009 at 2:23 PM
now i know … am learning new things everyday …
mochaiane
October 16, 2009 at 2:25 PM
very well said…gnyan pla dpt gawin..hehehehe…kanino ko kaya pwede itry yan?
male
August 17, 2011 at 12:12 AM
babae ka ? qng babae ka skin na lng haha
Halimaw Sa Banga
October 16, 2009 at 2:27 PM
Yes, I agree. ladies first.. that’s what a gentle man should do..
but i still prefer rough sex
Traydor
October 16, 2009 at 2:30 PM
I love you!
Dillinger
October 16, 2009 at 2:30 PM
Well this is true tho. Foreplay before anything else is important. so guys master the art of oral sex
i recommend it . a man who’s a master at oral sex — going south on women — the entire world really does rest on the tip of your tongue. Why is this? Because it’s one of the easiest ways to bring a woman the greatest amount of pleasure in the shortest amount of time. It really ought to be a no-brainer. There is absolutely nothing like the soft wetness of your tongue to make a woman’s nether regions equally soft and wet – and ready to get it on with the rest of you.
rico of proj 8
October 16, 2009 at 2:39 PM
Think I wanna get laid tonight…o(@_@)9
mmmycz
October 16, 2009 at 2:39 PM
awww damn nainitan nnman ako dhil sayo, haha
mocha, i feel like i wanna kiss u so sweet and gentle then rough between yo legz til u get so fuckin wet. =P mmmmuah
finger walkin’ nice nice..
tongue – lick – clit ..im droolin’ now haha
you’re fuckin right mocha, ladies first hihihi
my gf always, always cums first haha
bangie
October 16, 2009 at 3:03 PM
wow! give me more tips about that! because i want to to give her a satisfaction, when both our flesh body will collide!
rydl716
October 16, 2009 at 4:35 PM
nice one mocha. it’ll be duly noted. a man who knows his GMRC (Good Manners and Right Conduct) need not have to hurry things up. from the word gentleman it’s key words is gentle / man so guys, we need to live with this. be gentle so we could be the man…. still if your partner wants it rough. who are we to disobey…. Mocha your really rock…
allan
October 16, 2009 at 4:47 PM
damn,,, ur really HOT.
Jonathan Zaguirre
October 16, 2009 at 4:53 PM
101% TRUE!
shamir
October 16, 2009 at 5:24 PM
nice!
Michael Deguzman
October 16, 2009 at 6:09 PM
nice pics girl! again if your free, maybe you, me and my girlfriend can hang out or have dinner sometime?!
jomer
October 16, 2009 at 6:49 PM
nakakapang init!!! Mocha I Love you…
rose
October 16, 2009 at 7:19 PM
I like your blog, I think, ill go with you to be my 1st female partner and to have experience with same sex…Can you be?????
akem
March 16, 2011 at 1:21 PM
ikaw can you be my partner?
GL2814.5
October 16, 2009 at 7:51 PM
Yep, ladies first.. No reason we can’t be gentlemen even during the dirtiest sex.
tawi
October 16, 2009 at 8:46 PM
It’s so hot in here, i’ll keep that on mind
tsk
October 16, 2009 at 8:51 PM
tsk pag natikman ako niyan di na ko iiwan niyan…. tsk
burn-garnet
October 16, 2009 at 9:31 PM
our Mocha Goddess, now a SEX GURU!
crucial shot
October 16, 2009 at 10:29 PM
mocha ito ang blog n ndi boring
QAZAR
October 16, 2009 at 11:29 PM
Teacher mocha, I need personal tutoring ehehehe
mark_raymond77
October 17, 2009 at 2:59 AM
helpful! thanks!
Randy
October 17, 2009 at 5:49 AM
love you Mocha!
poyeng
October 17, 2009 at 12:51 PM
wwatch kita sa oct.28 sa cowboy grill-binan..pa picture,ha
bigJ
October 17, 2009 at 3:08 PM
shet!nilabasan ako
angel
October 17, 2009 at 3:19 PM
i like it… ang galing ni mocha
sana yun bf ko mabasa to. par aalam nya gagawin pag may do do kami hehehe
tray
December 4, 2009 at 2:42 PM
ANGEL, if you need help i mean advise, dito lang ako i can help you… take care…
roman
October 17, 2009 at 10:45 PM
I like watching you…turns me on! you turn my whole world upside down…
j
October 18, 2009 at 7:56 AM
wow. good lecture on the importance of foreplay. will you give me a practical exam ma’am haha kidding. but good info
angel
October 19, 2009 at 9:02 AM
mocha is great…
naadict na ata ako kay mochar. hehe
everytime i’ll make online the first thing i do was looked for Mocha’s blog, if there’s something new, hehehe
i love you mocha…..
mhavin
October 19, 2009 at 12:20 PM
yah thats true i already experience this G-SPOT stimulation…my GF becomes Squirty
ann
October 19, 2009 at 1:11 PM
ikaw na ba ang bagng “sex guru” ng viva? hehehe.. very nice mocha!
gerum guamil
October 19, 2009 at 6:49 PM
another very interesting fact but unlike others i try to make the experience reach a full hour thats what the gym is for
monch
October 20, 2009 at 2:00 PM
how about for those squirting orgasms?
monch
October 20, 2009 at 2:03 PM
ei mocha do you believe that just by licking nipples (ladies) would eventually achieve orgasm?
Blakvat
October 20, 2009 at 3:10 PM
*scribble* ooh…I learned something new again *scribble* *scribble*
mocha uson
October 23, 2009 at 2:28 AM
Thanks for all your insights. I always prefer a gentleman. But I also like guys who are good at the same time bad
mykel
October 27, 2009 at 1:05 PM
i agree with you mocha… i always make sure that the girl is always satisfied. foreplay is one step of multiple orgasm of the girl. that is why i love to eat wet pussy…
Miguel Andres
October 27, 2009 at 6:42 PM
ur right! ladies first. i always make sure she do the orgasm 2x before i do it.
JOSH
November 2, 2009 at 11:20 PM
if only i can be “there” for life!!!….hahaha…but would you believe that some women dont go for “that” kind of pleasure: oral sex….
skateboxx
November 21, 2009 at 3:02 AM
asking her first if she cums na..then i go for the blast!hehe
jojo
December 3, 2009 at 9:19 PM
pwede ko rin ba try to???
sa’yo
tray
December 4, 2009 at 2:40 PM
malamang dapat girl muna ang mag cum before guy syempre dapat parehas satisfied diba? ibang guys kasi doesn’t even care sa satisfaction ng sex partner nila… LADIES FIRST….
kellai
December 5, 2009 at 1:40 PM
i sure hope guys gets to read this.. came across your site last night.. i got stuck till half passed 5 in the morning.. up until now.. lol! ive my blogsite here too.. wanted to ask you something.. it’s kinda private though.. for me atleast..
i am loving your blogsite! it’s sooo real no pretentions.. aannd.. educational..
i just added you on facebook too.. surprisingly got a few common friends
ciao amore..
jojo
December 6, 2009 at 5:04 PM
wow!!!san mo nakukuha yung mga ideas na pino post mo sa blog???
experience??
angelou
December 13, 2009 at 3:35 AM
Hooooooott!!! ako malakas sa guys and girls too.
haha.mocha if i’ma celebrity i’ll follow you..
elkapitan1979
January 14, 2010 at 2:40 PM
I definitely agree… it leaves women wanting you more.
loveyourblogmocha
January 21, 2010 at 2:01 AM
Yep this is true. Nice post here mocha good job . I have been doing this for almost 3years now . women love to be played dirty before having sex . Women cannot explain their feelings when they are about to reach their orgasm or climax . all they can do is scream out.
gerry antioquia
January 29, 2010 at 4:56 AM
galing mo talaga mgadvice.sna magawa q 2 lalo na sa kasingganda mo.love yah
chinZ
January 29, 2010 at 11:35 AM
guezz my Boyfriend needs to read this so he can do better next time… tired of being ‘bitin’… hehehe…
navs
January 31, 2010 at 5:31 PM
nice tips wanna have sex with me
marilick07
February 5, 2010 at 8:18 PM
i agree with you mocha! dapat talaga ladies first palagi!hahaha…
nice blogs! dami ako natututunan!
keep up the good work!
god bless!
b t
February 25, 2010 at 9:19 AM
Interesting note about how some woman don’t want it. Actually what I’ve found is that many woman here have never had an expanded orgasm. Another note is that her cumming first can be a lot of work. When I was younger I was with a few women that took 30mins to an hour to cum while I’m doing everything in the book. One technique when you encounter this is to lick the alphabet over her clit. Don’t tell her your doing it but it’s something that never fails. Also pull the hood back and lick deeply under the hood. Anyway, since I had such a struggle when I was younger I can take a girl to a climax in only a few minutes by sensing her response. The trick after this is taking them to multiple orgasms instead of getting ticklish and clamming up. Each girl is different on this.
b t
February 25, 2010 at 10:43 AM
One more technique that works well on nipples as well as clits. Suck the clit to engorge it slightly. As you have the suction pulling the clit away from the hood lick the clit without releasing suction. Works well for nipples too. I first was doing this french kissing and it gave me the other approaches. Other cool oral topics, deepthroat, Gspot licking, the sponge and how it is sometimes squirting.
acer
April 1, 2010 at 3:15 PM
hi mocha
i just want to one thing i just wamt to know
how do you convince the other girl to share their body with you
thnk you
Maldita
April 5, 2010 at 4:24 PM
Hi Mocha!
YOU are so HOT!… sino ba nmn ang tatanggi na makipag DO sau…u are very passionate when it comes to sex..
I love your blog…(n_n)
by the way… ang tagal magload nung mga videos mo d2 sa blog.. gsto ko sana mapanood yung video nyo ni jc parker & Melissa..
More Power MOCHAlicious..
d.ran
April 27, 2010 at 1:10 AM
damn! you ARE sooo hot mocha..
um, i agree with what u said in ur blog
and there’s really nothing wrong by expressing your self ayt?
jason william
November 17, 2010 at 1:20 AM
So guys do our best that ladies first…
den we may get lucky (anal)
tip gin and energy drink before sex…energizer bunny baby
Gim
January 1, 2011 at 3:25 AM
Yes mocha, it should always be the “ladies first”. When I do sex with my partner I always consider my partner’s pleasure and not mine. When I see her responses to my touches makes me feel more horny. Iniisip ko palagi na ako yung dahilan kung bakit siya nasasarapan. Lalo na kapag nilalantad nya ang buo nyang katawan sa akin ng walang alinlangan. Kasabay nito ang unti-unti kong paghuhubad sa kanya mula bra hanggang panty. I get more horny pag binababa ko na yung panty and paghahalikan ko ang kanyang singit….Sorry for being straight…..I hope di ako naging bastos…
jensel
June 21, 2011 at 1:37 PM
aw sarap
LOLO ME
January 17, 2011 at 2:59 PM
ladies first, that’s how i do sex.
fingering, how do you like it ?
bhoy torrent
January 20, 2011 at 2:52 AM
Tama po Bb. Mocha. Mas masarap ma experience na basang basa muna ng orgasm ng babae ang kanyang puerta before the hard and quick rhythm of penetrations and pounding commences.
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The white fluid coming out from her pussy while my shaft is inside her makes me more horny and makes me feel more masculine (Damn, I’m that good)
kylleman
May 4, 2011 at 9:52 PM
paexp. nmn … nd pa ako nakakaexp ee… patry lang sau mocha
kick!!
May 13, 2011 at 3:11 PM
your so hot..can i taste ur lips..
jecks_enriquez
June 2, 2011 at 6:02 PM
i want some lickin on those cunt
Kenneth M.
June 9, 2011 at 12:00 AM
Let’s Fuck mocha.
lalaine
June 16, 2011 at 7:56 PM
bravo,mocha! a lot of boys kasi selfish, sila lang nafufulfill, and many women dont reach their climax! hope mabasa to ng mga boys na bobonix sa bed hahaha,
Kristen
June 17, 2011 at 5:09 PM
Mocha, im just curious..are your boobs real?
super_saiyan
June 25, 2011 at 2:33 PM
AMEN to that!
jb
July 2, 2011 at 12:34 AM
nd lht ng babae alam yung feeling ng nilalabasan… sa karanasan ko yung mga naging gf ko skin lng nila naranasan labasan.. kaya nmn kht wala n kami ng ibang naging gf eh minsan hinahanap p nila ako… sa karanasan ko ang girls matagal labasan.. pero meron akong nalaman kung pano agd cla lalabasan… ganun din ang girls pag nilabasan gs2 n rin magpahinga.. madalas matulog.. tulad din ng boys… mag-concentrate kau mga boys sa clitoris mas nasasarapan cla dun.. wag nyo munang itindihin yung sarali nyo dpt girls muna… tuyo n gf nio nd pa rin yun lalabasan… may alam kc ako pero nd ko alam kung pano ituturo.. kelangan ko ng vibrator n pussy … sa totoo lng nakakaawa yung mga girls.. kc nd cla nasa-satisfied kc nd cla nilalabasan… un lng ^^
bryan
July 12, 2011 at 11:05 AM
mocha ang sarap mo. buti ka pa d kagalit sa mga lalaking nambabastos sayo. ILOVEYOU!
)
idontwannadie
August 2, 2011 at 3:10 AM
sarap ng tits mo sa na maka tikim din ako ng ganyan ^^ kung pwede sana !! sana sana sana ^^ ?heheheh libre lang ma ngarap ^^ehehe?
Panget Ako
August 10, 2011 at 7:02 AM
ate ask ko.,, virgin pa kasi girl friend ko hind ko alam kung pano ko sasabihin o gagawin yung first sex nya,,, hindi ko alam kung paano mag sisimula??
eric
September 8, 2011 at 11:14 AM
ur so hot ate mocha
)
crazefox69
December 21, 2011 at 12:17 AM
what if you’ve sex with the same gender? do we still need to be gentle?