Is your sex life getting a little predictable? Try anal sex. Experts estimate one in four straight couples have had anal sex, arguably making it the most popular of sexual taboos. Women who tried anal sex claimed that they had the most powerful orgasm in their lives.
Many women are reluctant to experiment with anal sex because of the many myths and misconceptions that surround the practice.
Here you’ll find answers to the most common concerns about anal pleasures: (By Hilda Hutcherson, M.D, author of What Your Mother Never Told You About Sex)
Myth 1 – The anus is dirty.
Fact – With routine daily hygiene, the anus is as clean as other parts of the body. It does contain its own natural bacteria, though, and to avoid infections, you must NEVER move anything from her anus to her vagina.
Myth 2 - Anal sex is painful.
Fact – Anal sex should not be painful. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong. The anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so use lots of water-based lubricants to further increase pleasure.
Myth 3 - Anal sex is harmful and unhealthy.
Fact – Pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to her anus or rectum. And as long as you do not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to her rectum.
Myth 4 – Anal sex is a perverted, unnatural act.
Fact – Anal sex has been an accepted sexual practice for centuries. In some cultures, women engage in anal sex with their male partners for sexual pleasure while protecting their virginity. You must decide for yourself what feels natural. If you and your partner are uncomfortable with any sexual act, don’t do it! You are in charge of what you do sexually.
Myth 5 - Anal sex is enjoyed only by homosexuals.
Fact – Long considered a purely homosexual act, anal sex is enjoyed by many heterosexual couples as well. Anal sex is simply another option for sexual gratification and is unrelated to your sexual identity.
Some women might totally freak out if you ask her about it casually. But in the heat of the moment, if you play your cards right, she might find the sensation so pleasurable she totally forgets her inhibitions. If you are curious to try it, you have to go about it the right way. The keys to pleasurable anal sex are relaxation, lubrication and education.
Personally, I like it.
Imburnal
October 19, 2009 at 4:09 AM
been doing anal sex with my gf. and she likes it a lot. sometimes its messy. but still she screams a lot while doing it.
i agree with you mocha. =P
mhavin
October 19, 2009 at 11:52 AM
mas masarap ang Squirt…liquid ejaculation. i try doing this……..THe G_spot
Jove
April 5, 2010 at 10:26 PM
I CAN TRY TOO U SEX IF U LIKE IF U ARE BORED IN PLAYING DODO OR ARTIFICIAL PENIS
Mr. Luvah Luvah
December 26, 2010 at 8:55 PM
holy shit… hahahahaha..
ivan
May 9, 2011 at 3:58 PM
ako gsto ku masarap yan
TOM SALVADORI
October 19, 2009 at 5:11 AM
WHAT A HOTTIE
JMS
October 19, 2009 at 5:20 AM
This is very educational. Thank Ü
angel
October 19, 2009 at 8:58 AM
thank you mocha…
you know im so afraid to do that..
but now, i learned from you… i’ll try…
to protect my virginity, why not? hehehe
jhayspade
November 19, 2009 at 9:20 PM
yeah its good
andrewboy15
January 10, 2010 at 5:28 PM
hey lets try?
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ian
November 21, 2010 at 11:13 AM
have you tried it already angel???
Gim
January 1, 2011 at 2:29 AM
I just want to say a little comment about angel who once posted a comment to mocha. She said that in order to save her virginity, she will do the anal sex. Well that sounds new to me….I think this will be a nice idea for other women….
Miles
June 14, 2011 at 8:10 PM
hi i want to try it with you
Tom Edward
October 19, 2009 at 11:00 AM
Yes, entering the nr. 2 gives me so much more pleasure, compared of going in the main entrance
But as you mentioned – proper and generous lubrication is a must for both parts! But still – even with all the lubrication in the world – if the guy has a 8+ inch disco stick, things will be quite painful for the girl, unless she is REALLY flexible and know how to relax 100%..! Nevertheless – I feel that I need to have complete trust in my girl, and vice versa, in order for it to be a great experience for both…
Glenn C
October 19, 2009 at 11:20 AM
aww mocha.. why did you change the pic?
shamir
October 19, 2009 at 11:25 AM
nice… I will have to ask my wife if she is willing to try
Michael Deguzman
October 19, 2009 at 11:38 AM
whats the best way to convince a girl to try it even just once?
mochaiane
October 19, 2009 at 11:41 AM
i cant relate..pero in fairness ah?pra lang akong nagsesex education….nice blog mocha…
iamassej
March 29, 2011 at 11:08 AM
sex education…
mhavin
October 19, 2009 at 12:04 PM
can u post a topic about SQUIRTING i really like 8
mhavin
October 19, 2009 at 12:05 PM
tnx…..
emonizer
October 19, 2009 at 12:29 PM
i like to do it first as one of my foreplay thingy to any girl that go with .. even with the firstimer …
Samz Tecson
October 19, 2009 at 12:46 PM
nice one mocha.. many women will be open about this.. ^_^
mmmycz
October 19, 2009 at 12:47 PM
haha mocha, u always have something good for your blog. hmmm.. i haven’t tried it with my girl, sometimes i think i want to but dunno.. time will cum. LOL i dont think there’s something wrong with it, for me its normal coz lotsa of people do it. hahaha but if i will to buy a toy, i hope its u.haha
mmmycz
October 19, 2009 at 1:01 PM
ok i just txtd my gf, if she wants any so i can order hahaha she said she’s contented. when the time comes that we might need it, i will definitely try it. hahaha better yet try it with u mocha hmmm..
mhigz
October 19, 2009 at 2:15 PM
ur SO HOT nice ASS:D
the equipped
October 19, 2009 at 3:39 PM
this is SUPER educational blog. This might sound Eeeoow(yucky)…but still quite convincing.Mocha, your not only be coming a sexy singer but also a sex instructor(just kidding)…
Jonathan Zaguirre
October 19, 2009 at 5:26 PM
NICE!
Jonathan Zaguirre
October 19, 2009 at 5:32 PM
NICE!!
gerum guamil
October 19, 2009 at 6:41 PM
very interesting ………..indeed very educational as well time to hunt for a willing partner……..then again……… well why not
gerum guamil
October 19, 2009 at 6:44 PM
oh yes i like the photos looking forward to your weekly gig in blue wave
jeffrey
October 19, 2009 at 8:39 PM
happyness! ^oo^v
rose
October 19, 2009 at 8:41 PM
Very interesting topic..tHANKS MOCHA for the very nice blog…Suggestion, can you make a group for BI/DISCREET female, so that we have opportunities to meet other BI…Although in our country is not acceptable…
iamassej
March 29, 2011 at 11:09 AM
like it:)
Arcie
October 19, 2009 at 9:33 PM
I just can’t help but notice, you do have a flair in writing… you are so good at this… I think you should right a book! hehehe
WAW
October 20, 2009 at 8:46 AM
True, even if a lot of us Filipinos are educated or have been exposed to different cultural practices, women (even with some men), are still hesitant to concede to dorsal-orifice-entry. This is because of the lack of knowledge in which they purposely “dis-acquaint” themselves with.
I am with you on the understanding that the best way for a girl (esp. Filipina) to indulge in d-o-e is to ask her in the heat of the moment and when she is already catatonic with climax [just have a lubricant ready(secretly)] and do the pinoy “kulit” thing seduction in which we pinoys are known for. That’s the highest possibility (personal statistics only) of getting these girls to surrender their “other” womanhood to us.
Thanks Mocha for this article, I’m your no.1 fan starting now.
Well, like what the old casino master would say, “Liquer at the front, poker at the back!”
-waw
Chris
October 20, 2009 at 7:57 PM
Honey,
The more I find out about you the more perfect you are…wow!
Love
Chris
monmon
October 20, 2009 at 11:39 PM
great article! No bull and straight to the point! Great pointers, especially on fact 1 and 2!
levi dizon
October 22, 2009 at 2:06 PM
man, mocha..wanna taste you..i like your sizzling body..wanna fuck the hell out of yah..
mocha uson
October 23, 2009 at 2:25 AM
LUBE, LUBE , LUBE!
It’s pretty messy and uncomfy, but it’s worth it. Just make sure she’s in the mood for it. Using toys during foreplay would also help.
missmasiado16
May 21, 2011 at 3:14 PM
i tried it..
kilroywashere33sam
June 14, 2011 at 9:35 PM
but did you like it???
happygirl
October 23, 2009 at 4:48 PM
My hubby and I tried it twice already.. It really feels good both for me and him.. But the bad thing is nagkaroon ako ng almuranas.. don’t know if that is what caused it.. T_T
sweetamz
October 28, 2010 at 11:15 AM
nagkkaalmuranas tlg when u have anal sex.. kya i qont ever try it..
arnold
October 26, 2009 at 8:12 PM
learned a lot! ..
Miguel Andres
October 27, 2009 at 6:27 PM
thanks for the blog. my gf dont like it that much. i think we really need to lubricate it much. i love it!
bogli
November 20, 2009 at 7:59 PM
what’s your number mocha?
Zinned
November 20, 2009 at 9:25 PM
Hello! pwede po ba humingi ng personal experience hehehe
peace!
skateboxx
November 21, 2009 at 3:00 AM
tried it once on my ex GF..when she was having her monthly period..damn!it feels so good..:)
hesitant girl
November 23, 2009 at 5:10 PM
is it really more exciting to do it? im hesitant.. my hubby asking me to do it …
Danny
November 27, 2009 at 12:31 PM
Wassup Mocha ! You have such an animal sex appeal that I havent seen anywhere. Im from Vegas and will visit the Phils on Dec 15. I really want to meet you. Gimme your cell.
ultimatepleaser
January 7, 2010 at 5:02 PM
let try you.. I’ll make you scream, I’ll treat you as my princess.. I’ll be slow and gentle, make you feel sexy.. let me please you..
blueballs
January 8, 2010 at 2:51 AM
Me and my GF have tried it, but she says she doesn’t like it, or rather prefers normal sex. How can I convince her to do it again?
anthony
January 12, 2010 at 1:18 PM
hmmm…haven’t tried this one yet…
daxdyn
January 30, 2010 at 7:13 AM
have you ever been expirienced this anal sex?
b t
February 25, 2010 at 8:58 AM
Well I’m glad you like it. I will say that a girl should know it’s what you like before the relationship gets serious. Then take your time in introducing that entry point as being sexual. As you lick her and she’s enjoying it incorporate some probing gently. Be prepared for inital attempts to be frustrating as she wants to quit. Be paitent and save it for another day. After about 10 times she will be used to it and offer it as an alternative to normal or BJs. Some girls like to be dialated with two or three fingers first to ease the insertion. As far as the mess, well pick your time around BMs. I like to go normal and enter the ass as I’m cumming. Then it’s so tight I can stay hard and get a second time. The cum acts like a great lube this way. Yep back to the messy topic though. Thanks for bringing this up in a positive way.
orgyorgy
March 25, 2010 at 12:50 AM
miss mocha would you midn to post a whole body picture naked? nothing to hide you have a good body so show it please…
pluspeed233
May 19, 2010 at 10:13 AM
nice entry!
Jamar Huggins
May 29, 2010 at 11:49 AM
Very great writing. Honestly.
_manny
June 5, 2010 at 7:56 PM
Love your blog/pix/videos and you. superhot!!!
hot cubano
June 15, 2010 at 5:15 AM
hey would love for you to meet my wife…shes bi curious filipina
loves anal sex, she just needs some encouragement and confidence!
jhen
August 26, 2010 at 4:15 PM
tnx for your blog. i love to experience anal sex!
jay tan
September 3, 2010 at 1:04 PM
ntry mu nba anal sex???
l0vEr b0y
October 19, 2010 at 12:22 AM
enge n0. ng babae jn?..
kilroywashere22
October 27, 2010 at 3:29 AM
Hello Mocha
My name is Sam and Ive been reading you blog and have enjoyed it from many different perspectives, educational, fun, stress reliever. I also write a blog but not on your level. But I have made a different change to it because of your blog. I hope you will take a few moments to read it and give me some feed back. Thanks again and good luck, hope you enjoy my blog.
Sam Obrian
http://kilroywashere33.blogspot.com/?zx=9f56febec9df4941
mocha uson
October 28, 2010 at 5:43 AM
Cool blog! Keep it up!
Sam
October 27, 2010 at 3:37 AM
Its me again, I wanted to recomend something for you to try. I think that having a body paint photo shoot would look so great, maybe even a calendar with various designs. Kind of like what was done in SI swimsuit issue a few yrs ago. Painted on swim suits. Just an ideal
mocha uson
October 28, 2010 at 5:40 AM
Thanks for your suggestion. My manager likes the idea. I like it, too. MIght do it for my next fund raiser. Thanks.
ryan
August 21, 2011 at 2:41 PM
Pano kung may Hemorrhoid? o Di ba siya nakakapag cause ng ganun? ok lang ba kahit walang condom?
emerson
November 16, 2010 at 6:19 AM
have you try it?
mazen
December 26, 2010 at 9:04 PM
this my email zizosharm@yahoo.com
Robert
December 30, 2010 at 11:29 PM
i indeed like it. Muscle control are much felt! Just go on with the excitement for first time girls its a great pleasure for us Guys! And for experienced girls do it w/ us on your seductive way!
martin
January 1, 2011 at 9:15 AM
ahhhahahhaahha
jed
January 25, 2011 at 12:18 AM
mocha, what specific brand of lubricant you can suggest… i want to try analsex to my GF
kilroywashere33@yahoo.com
May 11, 2011 at 12:03 PM
Any lube will do. water based if your using a condom.
If your going bare back and type will do
imabisexual
March 13, 2011 at 10:28 PM
Hi… haven’t tried anal sex… though i think it’s kinda fun and alluring…
Saving virginity from doing anal sex? Whoah…. nice.. hehe. Hey mocha, just read your blog and i became addicted to it. could you post something about virginity? like what was really it’s definition? just curious. hehe. i haven’t done sex with guys but i do have experience with girls, does fingering considered you loss your virginity?
kilroywashere33@yahoo.com
May 11, 2011 at 11:54 AM
No it does not mean you have lost ur virginity back there unless they have had alot of fingers there, like all of them at once LOL
blablabla
April 29, 2011 at 10:55 PM
MOCHA ! PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION: in anal sex, why is it painful when it is too much deep?
kilroywashere33@yahoo.com
May 11, 2011 at 11:58 AM
It maybe from the kink in the bowels. When a mans penis goes deep there is the chance that the colon has a bend right before the exit area. One suggestion is to take shorter strokes. Another is to have that person who is going to be entered, have a an enama before(1-2 hrs before) This may help with the added pain there.
AND ALWAYS GO SLOWLY AN USE LOTS OF LUBE
super_saiyan
June 25, 2011 at 2:35 PM
Havent tried it yet…All my partners don’t want to….even the ladies for hire don’t want to….. sad to be me….. oh well..
jimmy
July 17, 2011 at 1:02 PM
missmasiado–ano ang feeling nung nagawa mo?
ryan
July 31, 2011 at 2:59 AM
Pano kung may Hemorrhoid? o Di ba siya nakakapag cause ng ganun?
scout1515
August 18, 2011 at 1:18 PM
nakakabuntis ba ang anal sex pag pnutok sa loob?
SuzeE
October 13, 2011 at 7:37 PM
hi mocha, ur blog are awesome and so u r!
i really wanted to experience the anal sex. but im so so afraid to get hurt. and also i dont know if i can able to cope it or whatever. until now. i dont have the guts to do it
quardo gabriel
October 20, 2011 at 12:01 PM
i want to test with u mocha how delicious ur anus…
ric
November 4, 2011 at 2:35 PM
good idea…
sheen
November 13, 2011 at 2:07 AM
ung bf ko lagi akong pinipilit na itry un, pero ayaw ko, kasi baka my lumabas na di inaasahan at baka magkaalmuranas pa aq hehe
Cj Quirino
December 6, 2011 at 2:43 PM
mocha ako naman ang partner mo sa sex education libog na libog ako syao ee pls PM mo nmn ako nakakadik ka..
Cj Quirino
December 6, 2011 at 2:45 PM
ms mocha pls send me a memaging masaya ako naaadik nako sayo every night and day pinapanuod ko blog mo super love ko.. ako nmn sana partner mo plsssage para