To BI or not to BI?
I first started blogging on the now-defunct MAXIM Magazine Philippines. In my blogs, I have always incorporated bisexualism. Since then, many have emailed and PM me asking a lot of questions about bisexualism . And now with my new Mocha Girls Jhane & Mae, I was so surprised to find out that they are BICURIOUS. So what is BI CURIOUS? What is BISEXUAL? And what is a LESBIAN?
What is a Lesbian? When you are a lesbian, you like women. You’re sexually attracted to women. You want to have sex with women. You want to build a life with a woman, have relationships with women ONLY.
WHAT IS BISEXUAL? When you are Bisexual, you like both men and women. You are sexually attracted to both men and women. You want to have sex with women and men. You want to have relationships with either. YOU MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE HAD SEX WITH SAME SEX to be called BISEXUAL. The fact that in your heart you like and desire both men and women makes you a Bisexual.
WHAT IS BICURIOUS? There are many definitions of “BICURIOUS” but there is one common description. You are BICURIOUS when you are not sure of your sexuality. You find yourself attracted to both men and women. BICURIOUS people have or haven’t acted on their sexual desire. They are confused and still afraid to admit that they are Bisexual. If Mae and Jhane are bicurious, does it mean they’re bisexual? I don’t want to spill the beans early. Get a copy of FHM July issue and find out for yourself.
I am proud to say that I am BISEXUAL. I am attracted to both men and women. I had BF & GF in the past. I’ve had sex with both Men and Women. I have celebrity crushes and I fantasize about them- Rhian Ramos, Dingdong Dantes, Saida of EB BABES and many more. Many girls have approached me telling me that they’re confused about their sexuality. They have boyfriends but they find themselves fantasizing about women. I’m also surprised to receive emails from girls as young as 16 telling me about their experiences with the same sex. They wanted to know if they’re bisexual. There is one thing that I would like to share with them – IF YOU LIKE GIRLS & GUYS, whether you have or haven’t had sex with them, YOU ARE BISEXUAL. If you like, love or desire girls but still prefer to have relationships with guys – YOU ARE BISEXUAL. Be proud and don’t be afraid of what other people think.
Your sexual orientation does not determine who you are or what you do. My advocacy is to change people’s perspective on bisexualism. As I have said before, I wish all women were bisexual. If all women would learn to appreciate, love and embrace other women- the world would be a much better place. No more catfights, no insecurity.
Glenn Ochoa
June 17, 2010 at 7:20 AM
This would put an end to the saying that “Women secretly hate each other”
Maureen Duag
June 17, 2010 at 10:47 AM
im bisexual and I AM proud to be one! i admire alot the three of you .. and i dont care bout what others are saying bout my sexuality.. this is me.. ;p
GirliAm
August 9, 2010 at 2:29 PM
I am also a bisexual but only few knew it since I came from a conservative family. Dunno what to do . . .
pokwong fernando
June 17, 2010 at 11:17 AM
MOCHA, i admire ur philosophy, principles, candidness, honesty — on top of your innate beauty and being a great singer and dancer and a superkool girl! wow! saan pa ako?
Desiree Molas
June 17, 2010 at 2:58 PM
i think im bicurious well i dont really know im still confuse ,hehhe! i need to more.. ur blog is great..
Mendelssohn Janiola
June 17, 2010 at 3:16 PM
Tol, it’s not what you want to say.. It’s how you say it.. This practically perfect.. And pseudo-Kudos.. Nothing against BI’s of the same preference.. RESPECT EARNED!
burn-garnet
June 17, 2010 at 6:56 PM
thanks Mocha, for raising pinoy’s awareness about this.
bi’s do exist, let’s celebrate to that=)
friendlyink
June 17, 2010 at 7:19 PM
then how i wish i was a hot sexy female..so i can make out with you..hihi..but it wud be better if i can make out with you as myself..hehe
Firefox
June 17, 2010 at 8:25 PM
I noticed pictures of Mocha slowly moving away from the pics that she does before. Because of those disgusting Filipinos that criticize, now she has to make it wholesome.
Paulene
June 18, 2010 at 12:43 AM
Where are the VIDEOS… we want more VIDEOS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ez
June 18, 2010 at 3:39 AM
Reminds me of a dumb hick who went to a bar, tried to hit on a girl sitting next to him and got turned down because the girl said “I’m lesbian”.
I did mention that the guy was dumb, so he wondered and asked the girl “What’s lesbian”.
The girl said “It’s the fact that I like women, not men. I like to have sex w/ women”.
The dumb hick pondered about this.
After a few rounds he told the bartender “You know what I found out? I’m lesbian”.
-Ez
JULIUS
June 19, 2010 at 12:20 AM
BUT THEN AGAIN, WITH THE KIND OF SOCIETY WE HAVE, ADVOCATING SUCH PROGRESSIVE PERSPECTIVES WILL MEET CRITICISMS.. WHEN THIS SOCIETY WILL BE MATURE ENOUGH TO EMBRACE?
Ez
June 20, 2010 at 1:35 AM
^
It can’t happen overnight. But Little by little julius “society” is accepting gay relationships one at a time. Take me for example, I don’t mind gay marriage at all if it involves two hot chicks. see?
mmmm
June 20, 2010 at 3:30 AM
hi, i saw you girls at greenbelt 3 at timezone earlier.. you were so hot hands down…
Gunner
June 21, 2010 at 8:41 PM
Informative.. You’re bi sexual right Mocha?
So does that mean that you can have relationship with a woman and man at the same time , wont that make them conflict with each other?
Michy Claveria
June 22, 2010 at 12:05 AM
what if I had a relationship with a man but now I’m with a woman. I must say na sya na lang gusto ko… I can’t imagine myself na with another man. but with another woman, hell yeah!
san ba akong category? hihi…
keeperoftruth
July 2, 2010 at 1:26 PM
That guy was probably one hell of a loser. xD There aren’t many REAL men left in this world, sadly… I’m starting to feel alone lol.
But yeah, if you’re a believer you might want find a good man for yourself.
MD
June 22, 2010 at 11:24 PM
Hi Mocha!! First of all, I really love on reading your blog. It’s like whenever I’m online, I make sure to visit your blog. Well, I’m very glad that you have an advocacy to change people’s perspective about bisexualism. And I could say that I’m proud to be a bi..=) Go Mocha!!
Gunner
June 23, 2010 at 11:01 PM
mitchy your called a “vagitarian”
Ez
June 24, 2010 at 1:14 AM
^
You now qualify as Lesbian, Michy. Former Straight female who turned Lesbian.
^^
And Gunner I think a 3-some is the solution to the problem you presented.:)
Midge
June 30, 2010 at 9:30 PM
The first time I stumbled at your blog, I was enticed more by what you wrote, but the more I can get a peek at who and what you really are, I have to admit I am becoming more of a fan to you!! Go individualism!, Go Mocha!
mariasweet16
July 1, 2010 at 6:39 AM
hi sis.. ahmm so nice naman ng blog mo.. hehe.. i like women and men too.. but so afraid na malaman to ng friends ko.. that is why tinatago ko lang ito..but in my heart i like both of them.. anyway ilang taon ka na po? ako 16 pero in nov.20+ I’LL BE 17.. hope mag ka roon na ako ng experience with girls..
Jedi08
July 2, 2010 at 3:55 PM
where r u from?..
mjb
August 6, 2010 at 8:31 PM
cebu poh.. bakit?
curLy_tOPs
July 7, 2010 at 12:12 AM
hahahha, ,
mE too, ,i’m so afraid if i told them that,
but i tell one of my barkadazz,
and she’s so shucked!!
OMG!!
hahah, , so funny, !!
XD
mjb
August 6, 2010 at 8:29 PM
yah,, pano to..takot talaga akong malaman ng mga friends ko na bisexual ako.. baka kasi lumayo sila sakina.. huhu
cUrly tOpz
December 5, 2010 at 12:49 AM
di nman cguro,
if they were u’r true friends,
i aaccept ka nila as u!
like me !
they love ma too!
and as i am!
at hindi ako nag-iisa!
XD
lol!
GirliAm
August 9, 2010 at 2:33 PM
Hi,
We are in the same ship . . . I am also a bisexual and I am also afraid. My family might reject me . . .
mjb
August 22, 2010 at 3:47 PM
yeah.. so sad na hindi natin ma ipakita sa mga tao na bisexual tayu..dhil takot tayong masaktan at takot tayong hindi matanggap ng mahal natin sa buhay..
add mo koh sa ym.. ganges_law see yah^
cUrly tOpz
December 5, 2010 at 12:53 AM
basta ako nag try lang!
lol XD
Jedi08
July 2, 2010 at 3:54 PM
wow..
) nulat ako sa mga nabasa ko.. pti ur so hot po.. wii.. Ü saw your pictures.. it makes me jerk out.. xD wiw..cge.. nice.. 
) ingat.. =) 17 plng pla ko.. haha..
Jedi08
July 2, 2010 at 3:57 PM
also i followed you on twitter..
) kyogre08.. 
)
Badger
July 6, 2010 at 2:28 AM
I still wonder: why is it in this day and age that a person’s sexual orientation is still considered as the sole benchmark of their character?
nicey
July 6, 2010 at 4:04 AM
hi! i like both guys and girls and haven’t admitted it yet, just to some of my trusted friends.. i admire your beauty and i really think you’re smart,and that made u even hotter =) i’m a big fan!
kEii
July 17, 2010 at 7:33 PM
gusto ko po mapanuod yung jack rabbit. tska ung sainyong dalawa ni JC PARKER.. ung FULL VIDEO..
shane
July 22, 2010 at 4:11 AM
hi mocha! ganda ng site mo.. not that normal type of personal website pro KITA at basa rin ng mga visitors mo how informative your site is.. i came from a typical conservative filipino family but i do appreciate this site of yours.. i hope to read more and hear more from you.. btw how is it going with the chemotheraphy of your mom.. i hope she’s doing fine.. i will include her in my prayers.. God bless and good luck
marjurean
July 23, 2010 at 10:35 AM
…hi poh aq rin aminado aqng BI..
i love 2 watch ng mga movie n lesbian love story..
sna mpnuod q un rome and juliet nla andrea and mhylene dizon..gsto q story nla…
jay astilla
July 25, 2010 at 12:42 PM
i really find you sexy,super sexy actually.pretty and sexy.kahit dun sa movie mo,i watched it.i’m a fan of yours.
jay astilla
July 25, 2010 at 12:44 PM
hi mocha,
i really find you sexy,super sexy actually.pretty and sexy.kahit dun sa movie mo,i watched it.i’m a fan of yours.
jim
August 2, 2010 at 7:24 PM
crush na crush kita.,.,lalo ka na eb babe mae,..,sobra.,.,sana ma meet kita at makasama kita kahit isang araw lang.,.matagal na kita gusto makasama.,.,im 20 years old.,.,love you.,.,comment ka sana sakin.,.,plzzz.,.dont disappointted me.,.,tnx
larry
August 4, 2010 at 1:52 PM
hi..isa ako sa ngapapantasya sau..i laways open ur blog if they have new in this site..i hope u make new more latest picture and videos together with ur new member..take care always
Matt
August 8, 2010 at 1:51 AM
Way to to, Mocha! Read your post about the haters – they will be there but you are your own person and I applaud you for sticking it up to damn haters. More success to yah gurl!
~ Matt
emperorbananaketchup
August 8, 2010 at 8:42 PM
Whatever makes you happy…
You shouldn’t be bothered by what others think…if you love both men and women, fine!!! Double happiness!!!
black
August 12, 2010 at 1:14 AM
post more vedio!!!!!!!
black
August 12, 2010 at 1:15 AM
post more nude vedio!!!! we want more hot and sexy vedio…
Bob
August 15, 2010 at 1:13 PM
Well i’ll take what ever you want to give!! You got my email and lets get together suki!!
angelo
August 17, 2010 at 4:49 AM
bakit wala na kayong bagung mga picture?
Mister
August 18, 2010 at 2:28 PM
NO MORE VIDS???NO MORE POST???MOCHA WHERE ARE YOU?
emperorbananaketchup
August 18, 2010 at 8:47 PM
….it shouldn’t matter just as long as you’re happy and no one’s toes are stepped on as a result.
Good work in moving on…you don’t deserve people who harbour nothing but ill will and negativity against you
lifemoto
August 19, 2010 at 10:51 AM
thank you for the information miss beauty. it is hard na magpakatotoo. but good for those have express their identities. you can love others because that is the commandment.
jod
August 20, 2010 at 1:33 PM
wow!
jet-jet
August 21, 2010 at 6:11 AM
doesn’t metacafe allow nude videos? the 4 videos on your hartmaster2006 aren’t online. i’m pretty sure i once watched a video of you having a threesome with 2 girls. do you still have an available link? thanks!
eigyer
August 22, 2010 at 12:34 PM
mocha!.u always make me hot!.i like you so much!.sna mag kasama tayo someday.:))
anonymouse
August 27, 2010 at 11:48 AM
I want to see a video of you making out with them
lizz
August 29, 2010 at 2:54 AM
im a straight girl but i am very curious about doin it with a girl… but i dont know how and i dont know anyone that i can share my secret with…. i think that women are beautiful and that we deserve to have fun same as guys do…
b
September 28, 2010 at 6:55 AM
i totally agree. I feel the same
anonymouse
September 1, 2010 at 12:45 PM
Mocha we miss the sight of you touching another woman!
Jenny
September 10, 2010 at 8:57 PM
Hi Miss MOCHA. . . Im jenny a bisexual i’m in a same sex relati0nshp wer about 1year n 7m0nthz ryt n0w. I am stil c0nfous til n0w f i wil go str8 or b me 4 d rest of my lyf. .i love my gurl i love having sex with her bt sumtyms i am afraid dat my parents or frends wud hate me f they found out about my sexuality. . Pls help me. . .
Sarah
July 28, 2011 at 5:34 PM
Jenny, you just have to be yourself and follow your heart. You can´t get approval from everyone. You don´t need your parents approval, you are you, not your parents.
Good luck!!
lerms
September 11, 2010 at 12:57 AM
i am a BISEXUAL. and i’m proud to be BISEXUAL.
thank you MOCHA..
jhen
October 10, 2010 at 11:13 PM
me to ! relationship with men ang women but i only have sex with girl only ?? sex with men di ko pa tlga na try ! pero ilke men as same fantasize with girls
nikki angelo
October 25, 2010 at 1:43 AM
hi mocha!!! u r the best!!!
bertu
November 6, 2010 at 3:29 PM
WHEW!
roman
November 11, 2010 at 9:30 PM
Congratulations for your free spirit and your lesbian life, your help for the young girls that they search to understand themselves
cheann tan
November 22, 2010 at 11:16 PM
i love you
cheann tan
November 22, 2010 at 11:47 PM
babe…….pls…beep me MOBILE NUMBER HIDDEN….i like you the way you are,,………….all you want il give you evrythng…im hot……….pls beep me… bi ako……………………babe…
cheann tan
November 22, 2010 at 11:47 PM
babe…….pls…beep me MOBILE NUMBER HIDDEN….i like you the way you are,,………….all you want il give you evrythng…im hot……….pls beep me… bi ako……………………
cheann tan
November 22, 2010 at 11:53 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>can we sex babe………………….bi ako MOBILE NUMBER HIDDEN just beep me tx me
Meddy Estrella
December 7, 2010 at 4:58 PM
mocha,
i wish you could post some nude pictures of mae… she’s my foremost crush and my fantasy… even when she was still a part of the EB Babes… hope she doesn’t get offended with the request… if it’s not possible here, kindly tell her about my request… she can send it to me by my e-mail @ zyxe_2k4@yahoo.com… i will never let anyone see her nude pic if ever… that would be a very private and confidential and for my eyes only… thanks a lot mocha
Meddy Estrella
December 8, 2010 at 3:26 PM
i wish you could post some nude pictures of mae… she’s my foremost crush and my fantasy… even when she was still a part of the EB Babes… hope she doesn’t get offended with the request… if it’s not possible here, kindly tell her about my request… she can send it to me by my e-mail @ zyxe_2k4@yahoo.com
elmer a magpayo
December 29, 2010 at 2:58 PM
niece to see you mocha.very hot.
calil
February 9, 2011 at 8:30 PM
nice blog
calil
February 9, 2011 at 8:31 PM
mocha youre so hot!!!!….i wish to be like u..
cha
April 10, 2011 at 5:31 PM
happy to hear that in our tym now, being bisexual is not a big issue.. xe im a bisexual, had relationship/sex with 3 lesbians.. happy to meet them.. and now im in a straight rel, everytym i see gurls, they always catch my attention..
cha
April 10, 2011 at 5:32 PM
tnx for having dis blog..
vern
July 2, 2011 at 6:24 PM
ms. mocha,, sorry if i haven’t asked permission beforehand to reblog 3 of your posts s blogsite ko,, they are all KICK-ASS topics and you tackled each of them quite perfectly =P
thank you for having this blog plus encouraging us to come out in the open and embrace our sexuality,,
vern
July 2, 2011 at 6:28 PM
i’ll take them out if you don’t like that i reblogged them,, thanks again,, =P
vern
July 3, 2011 at 12:29 AM
thank you ms. mocha! =P and i even got a pingback too!!! *squeals*
am going to have a goodnight sleep =P
sweet WET DREAMS to you *grins*
YOU ROCK!
Sarah
July 28, 2011 at 5:32 PM
Thank you for this post, Mocha. The world needs to know that most girls are bisexual, and that it´s perfectly ok.
mariajessa
July 30, 2011 at 8:31 PM
hey.. i’m bisexual.. 17 pa.. hehe. add me sa fb. mariajessalaw@yahoo.com
c:
anne(not my name)
December 19, 2011 at 2:36 AM
thankz mocha,,,the best tong blog mo,,at dahil d2 nakilala ko ng lubos sarili ko
)) thankz much sana makita kita ng personal