Is it ok to use toys during sex? Some of our callers think it’s ok because it adds thrill to their sexperience. Some didn’t like the idea of using toys because they feel threatened or intimidated. This episode was extra orgasmic because a female caller orgasmed live during the show! Was it real or fake? Find out on this episode. Click to watch:
Here’s episode 3 of Mocha Blog Live. We talked about the most common question of guys, “DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?” The initial reaction would be, “It’s not the size that matters, it’s the performance”. It’s not how small or how big your penis is but it’s how you perform. But what do we really mean by “performance”? Check out this video as our callers share they sexperience on how to makeup for small penis. Mae and I will also give a live demonstration as the callers describe their “performance”. Watch this!
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Hey O-peeps girls and boys! Valentine’s day is just a stone’s throw away! If you’re single and ready to mingle, party with me and the Mocha Girls on Feb. 14 at Mugen Bar! It’s going to be EXTRA special because it will also be a double birthday celebration of Mocha Girls Franz and Aura! Don’t miss out on this very special occasion! Get ready for an ORGASMIC Valentine’s date with us cuz it’s more fun to be single!!
Mae and I had so much fun at the launch party of Flippish.com last Jan. 25 at 7th High The Fort. What happens in a party, stays in the party. If you missed out, here’s what you missed. Watch this! You can catch me and Mae on our online tv show “MOCHA BLOG LIVE” every Tues, 10-1130pm on Flippish.com!
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Tuesdays just got hotter: Sexperts Mocha and Mae are here! These sizzling ladies will guide you through all your sex life concerns, Education has never been this sexy! Click the pic to watch the episode!
Good news O-peeps! Since Mae and I are blacklisted on Ustream, you can now join us on O-chat live once a week on Flippish.com! The show is called “Mocha Blog Live!” We’ll be broadcasting every Tues from 10-11:30pm. Our pilot episode last Jan. 3 was a huge success with 10K viewers. You can call us on our show through your mobile phone or Skype and share your sexperiences. The show is restricted to 18+ and for open-minded people only. Don’t miss our O-chat! Here’s the recorded pilot episode:
Knowing how to stimulate your bf/husband manually will make you feel sexually confident – and give him endless pleasure. The best way to learn is to watch him while he masturbates. This way you’ll be able to discover what does it for him – the way he strokes and the variety of pressure to bring him to orgasm. To give your man a truly orgasmic experience, you need to experiment with different strokes and positions.
For a different sort of “hand job” or penis massage, you can try any of the following:
1. Use your boobs. Have your guy place his penis in between your breasts. Squeeze your breasts around his penis and slowly move up and down.
2. Use your face. The closer your face is to his penis, the more erotic it becomes. You can gently massage his balls at the same time.
3. Use your feet. As crazy as it sounds, but some men have a thing for feet. It’s called foot fetish. They’re turned on when their partners use their feet to stimulate them. If you’ve recently discovered that your man has a foot fetish, you can bring him to orgasm by giving him a “foot job.” Gently rub his penis with your feet. Let him feel your toes and soles of your feet. USE LOTS OF LUBRICANT!
4. Alternative position. Approach him from behind, press your breasts against his back. Gently stroke his penis and softly moan in his ear. You can also do this in the shower to give him a slippery hand job.
Click this video to watch demo:
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First of all, I want to make it clear that I’m not writing this blog to condemn Rhian Ramos nor Mo Twister. Both are my friends and it’s sad to see two love birds become bitter enemies. Mo and Rhian are good persons caught in a tragic situation. The Abortion issue is not a joke and I AM TOTALLY AGAINST IT. I may be very liberated but never in my mind would I consider abortion to compromise my principles. I am not saying that RHIAN and MO had abortion. But the fact that RHIAN did not confirm nor deny in her interview made me want to discuss ABORTION here on my BLOG. As I always say, I am Pro-RH. I came up with my own terminology and I’d like to call it Pro-RESPONSIBLE HORNINESS. You can be as horny as hell, have sex all you want, BUT always USE protection! RH BILL is 100% against abortion because it promotes SAFE SEX. Abortion is harmful and compromises women’s health. Here are some side effects of ABORTION:
1. Excessive bleeding, abdominal swelling, pelvic infection, uterine perforation, cervical tears, incomplete abortion, and in extreme cases death (Corbett, 106)
2. Induced Breast Cancer Risk (United State National Cancer Institute)
3. Infertility (Myers, 1663)
4. Sexual Dysfunction (Coleman 3)
5. Psychological complications (Moira Gaul, M.P.H)
Sad to say, ABORTION in showbusiness is not new. It may not be too publicized but abortion is so rampant among young celebrities. YES it is! As a matter of fact, ABORTION is normal and it’s part of showbusiness. It is no longer an issue till MO and RHIAN came out. Problems of unwanted pregnancy, abortion and STD/HIV/AIDS especially among teenagers are attributed to LACK OF SEX EDUCATION. The youth hear crazy SEX MYTHS (withdrawal method, rhythm method, sex on period, etc.)- and they SUFFER the consequences. I support the RH BILL because it promotes SAFE SEX and helps PREVENT ABORTION. SEX and CONDOM are still TABOO here in our country. More and more YOUNG people are having UNSAFE SEX, getting STDs/HIV/AIDS, facing UNWANTED PREGNANCY, ABORTION, etc. All because our leaders in the GOVERNMENT and CHURCH are a bunch of HYPOCRITES!
On al lighter note, here’s one of the video parodies of Mo Twister on Youtube. Check it out:
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Dear Ms. O,
Hi, I love your Blog. I’m so happy whenever you have a new topic. Let me introduce myself, I’m Joanna, 24 and my husband is 25. We are a very horny couple. We do it everywhere in our condo unit. But sometimes, you know us girls, I’m not in the mood. Like what you said, if we’re not in the mood, at least we should give our husbands a hand job. So that’s what I do. The problem is it takes a long time for him to come. I guess I’m not very good in this area and he’s just too shy to tell me. Can you please teach me some techniques on how to give a hand job? By the way, I’m also BI. I love you and Mae.
“Joanna”
Women are not always in the mood. It’s a “girl thing”. It maybe hormonal or stress-related. What to do when your hubby is in the mood and you’re not? Well, at LEAST give hime a hand job – and a good one. Hand jobs are great! It’s also the best way to stop or start if you’re giving BJ. Because your hands don’t tire out as quickly as your mouth does. Also it is easier to apply pleasure with your hand than your mouth.
Here are some of my tips to make him orgasm fast through hand job:
1. Use plenty of water-based lube. Wet hand job is way better than a dry hand job. You can also use your saliva.
2. Wrap your hand gently but firmly around his penis. Slowly move it up and down. Keep a steady rhythm.
3. Hold his penis like you’re trying to open a door knob. Then try turning it the other way. Repeat. This way the palm of your hand stimulates the underside of the penis which is highly erogenous and pleasurable.
4. Look him in the eye. Give him a sexy look while you’re giving him a hand job. Let him know that you’re focused on him.
5. Talk dirty to him. Whisper in his ear while you’re stroking him. Ask him if he wants it harder or faster.
6. If you’re not making eye-contact, you can kiss him while stroking him. Kiss, lick and suck his nipples.
7. You can also use the other hand to gently cup his balls while stroking him up and down.
8. As he nears climax, continue stroking his shaft with one hand while the other massages his perineum (stretch of skin between his anus and testitcles)
It’s a good idea to experiment and try different moves. Practice makes perfect. You can also ask him to show you how he likes to be pleasured. Put your hand over his and let him guide you.
Shaved pubes can increase sensation and sexual pleasure. There are also healthy reasons to shave down there. Shaving your pubic hair can decrease vaginal odor and yeast infection. The most common yeast infection in women is called Candidiasis. Fungi or yeasts are commonly found in the human body. They thrive in wet and moist areas. Under certain circumstances, they multiply and become infectious. You can get yeast infection by trapping moisture in the vaginal area. Pubic hair traps perspiration and moisture. Making it vulnerable to yeast and also bacterial infections.
Symptoms of Candidiasis:
1. thick/clumpy sometimes watery white discharge
2. itching or burning sensation of the vagina
3. pain during intercourse
4.painful urination
5.redness and swelling of the vulva
Shaving your pubic hair is one way to prevent yeast infections. Here are some tips when shaving:
1. Use razor with movable head and double blades/strips for extra lubrication
2. Cover the area with shaving cream or use hair conditioner.
3. Shave in the direction of the hair growth or side-by-side.
4. Put a little baby powder after shaving to avoid bikini bumps (in-grown hair)
Use the razor to shave the hair covering the mons pubis (the soft area of fatty tissue over the pubic bone). Don’t use razor on the lips of the vagina to avoid cutting the skin. You can use blunt-tipped manicure scissors to trim that area. I suggest that you don’t shave it all off. Leave some hair. As the hair starts to grow back, it can be itchy and uncomfortable. You can also try bikini laser hair removal. Laser reduces or eliminates razor bumps and redness.
Dear Ms. O, (ENG. VER)
I’m a 3rd year nursing student. I’m staying in a ladies’ boarding house. We’re not being strictly watched by our landlady and so some girls sneak in their bfs. I can hear them moan from the other room whenever they have sex. And I don’t know why I get turned on especially when I hear the girl moan. Is that normal? Sometimes I get carried away I end up touching myself. Is it because of the moaning?
“Cherry”
Moaning is one very sexy way to spice up your sex life. It is the language and soundtrack of sex. Moans are sounds of affirmation that she/he likes what you are doing. It means he/she wants more. It’s nice to know how your partner is feeling and how well you are doing in bed. A voiceless and motionless partner in bed is like having sex with a dead body. A woman moans to express pleasure, excitement and satisfaction. When she moans, she loses control and brings down her guard. She allows herself to be part of that wonderful sexperience. A guy can have the natural tendency to moan during sex. Heavy breathing and groaning just shows that the pleasure is mutual, not only going one way. Moaning is good for both partners. It allows the woman to release stress, liberate herself and feel free. A guy is turned on when a woman moans. Also this will boost your man’s ego and make him feel good about himself.
It feels so good to moan. I love to moan. Delicious foods make me moan. Tweets from my followers make me moan. Don’t be afraid to moan when you experience pleasure. It’s good for you! It increases oxygen intake, which stimulates blood flow and brain function. Moaning can be very beneficial, physically and mentally.
For demo of different kinds of moans, watch this video:
