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Hey O-peeps! Nice chatting with you on Ustream last Thursday night! Mae and I had so much fun! We’ll have more live video chats soon! We’ll keep you posted on our FB. We’re going to take a short break from a regular sex education. Mae and I have decided to answer a couple of emails for this blog post. We’ll be reading their sexperiences and give them quick answers to their problems. If you have any sexperiences that you’d like to share, email me thru mochauson@aol.com.

Check out Mae singing one of her favorite songs. Don’t forget to add her on FB and follow her on Twitter. Enjoy!

Due to insistent public demand, especially by the ladies, I’m going to share with you my knowledge about cunnilingus. Cunnilingus is the act of stimulating a woman’s vagina using your tongue and lips. Most women orgasm through cunnilingus. Ladies, make sure you smell and taste good down there before you let your partner perform oral sex on you. Practice proper hygiene – shave your pubes, use feminine wash, panty liners, etc.

It’s important to remember a few tips before going down on your partner. You need to turn on a woman first before you give her oral sex. Tease her mind by talking dirty/sexy. During foreplay you can whisper thru her ear that you want to eat her. Tell her you want to taste her juice and suck her to the last drop. Talk like a pro-pussy licker. Be confident. By doing this, you are letting her imaginations run wild. You can make her wet just by talking dirty. Gently stroke her inner thighs using your hands – from the knee towards her vagina. Stroke her up and down but stay away from the vagina. Now that’s she’s already turned on and wet, it’s time to go down on her. Guys, if you’re not really into the taste, put on a flavored condom (LICK condom) and tease her vagina with your penis. By doing this, her vagina will taste like candy.
There are three basic Cunnilingus Techniques:
1. Kissing – Begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around, teasing the “lips” (labia minora and labia majora) with your tongue. Don’t kiss the clitoris.

2. Licking – Lick the area around the clitoris. You need to tease the area a bit before directly stimulating the clit. Lick it as if you’re licking an ice cream. By this time you will feel her clit harden. You can now start licking her clit gently then increase speed and intensity..

3.Sucking – suck her clit. This is also called Clitoral blowjob. Flick the clitoris with your tongue while sucking. Don’t take your mouth, lips and tongue away from the clitoris. Increase speed until she comes.

Watch this video for some cunnilingus demo:

IMPORTANT: Make sure you don’t have any cuts or sores in your mouth before giving oral sex to prevent transmission of STDs/HIV/AIDS. To be 100% safe, have your partner tested for STDs/HIV/AIDS before sex.

Hey O-peeps! Watch out for my upcoming movie in September entitled “So much pain, so in love”. I had so much fun doing the movie . I enjoyed my hot love scenes with the hot beauty titlist and international actress named Anthea Murfet. You will witness in the movie the hardships two bisexual women have to face- not being accepted, being rejected constantly, being lonely, can’t kiss your significant other in public without having weird and disapproving looks. These are common hardships every lesbian/gay/bisexual/transexual go through everyday. I hope we all learn to understand other people’s sexuality- he/she maybe a friend, colleague or a member of our immediate family. Instead of criticizing and judging, let’s move toward acceptance, understanding and support. A lot of the youth today turn to alcohol or drugs because their parents/families reject them. If you’re the one going through sexual identity crisis, don’t be afraid cuz you’re not alone. According to some statistics, 1 in every 10 people around the world is lesbian/gay/bisexual/transsexual (LGBT). It means there are many people you can talk to- including me. Don’t condemn yourself, but accept and love yourself for who you are no matter what other people say.

Since it’s the weekend, I’ve decided to take a short break from our Sex Education video series and give you a little treat. I’ve posted exclusive snapshots of my love scene with Mae from the movie. We will resume our SexEd next week. I will do my best to answer all your emails and share your sexperiences here on my blog. Have an Orgasmic weekend!

 

 

A lot of my blog readers asked me to differentiate G-spot orgasm from clitoral orgasm. We’ve already discussed G-spot in my earlier posts. Now, we’re going to talk about the clitoris. The only function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure. There are around 6000-8000 nerve endings, twice the amount found in the entire penis. That’s why the feeling is more intense for women during masturbation or sex. Unlike the G-spot, the clitoris is located outside the vagina. It is a button-like portion at the top of the vaginal slit, where the inner lips (labia minora) meet. It is the female equivalent of the head of the penis. It’s extremely sensitive to touch, too sensitive for direct stimulation. Just like the G-spot, you need to turn-on a woman first before you stimulate her clitoris. When a woman is aroused, her clitoris swells and becomes erect making it easier for you to locate. Do not touch her clitoris until it’s properly lubricated. Wait for her to get wet or you can use water-based EZ warming jelly. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable. Apply a few drops of jelly on your fingers. Slightly touch the area around the clitoris – below or just above it. Rub her clit with light, small circular movements. Then you can rub it up and down with very light pressure. Start slow and increase speed but decrease the pressure to tease. As she starts to enjoy it, do it faster and harder. You can also take her hand and let her guide your own fingers the way she masturbates.

So what’s the difference between Clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm? Clitoral orgasm is the most common way a woman orgasms. A woman can tell when she’s about to climax/orgasm. She experiences waves of pleasure, increased breathing, heart rate, rhythmic contraction of the lower pubic muscles and the vagina. Everything takes about 10 seconds. The clitoris becomes extremely sensitive after climax. Orgasm from G-spot stimulation is bigger. It’s a whole-body kind of experience. It’s hard to identify the beginning and end of a G-spot orgasm because it is a long, slow orgasm. The sensation fills her up until she can’t believe she could possibly feel more, then she does, and it fills up her entire body again. That’s why when you stimulate a woman’s G-spot, you will leave her wanting for more.

Check out this video for some actual demonstration:

Dear Mocha,

Can you please give me tips on how to give a great blow job? Whenever I give my bf a BJ, I can sense that he’s not really satisfied. He is celebrating his birthday soon and I want to give him the best blow job as a gift. Please, please help me!

Your fan,
Melody

Dear Melody,

Thank you for your email. I’m so happy to know women like you that are eager to please their men by giving them mind-blowing blow jobs. If men need to master the G-spot, women need to master the art of giving BJ . If you do, you will fulfill his ultimate sexual fantasy and this is the best birthday present you can give your bf.

For me, BJ is a delicious sexual act. I love it so much I tweet about it all the time. Blow job (Fellatio) is the sucking, kissing and licking of the head and shaft of a penis. When I give a guy a blow job, it gives me a sense of sexual power. I love the way he twitches and moans as I lick and suck him.

Why do men love BJ? Of course it feels good, but it also makes them feel desired. Blow job is one of the ultimate feminine acts of love. Going down on your man symbolizes submission, trust and admiration.

Mae and I made a video to demonstrate to you some BJ techniques that guarantee 100% satisfaction based on our experience. Mix these techniques with passion and you will surely please your man.

If you’re not sure that your partner is STD-free, use a condom when you give him a blow job. STDs/HIV/AIDS can be transmitted through oral sex.. You can use flavored condoms like LICK condoms. They come in strawberry and wild tutti-fruity flavors. Unlike other condoms, LICK condom doesn’t just smell good but it tastes really good. It’s like sucking a real lollipop. Once you suck, you’ll never stop. I guarantee both you and your partner will surely enjoy.

Mocha

I want to thank all my blog readers for the positive feedback regarding my previous post called “G-spot”. Mae and I are so happy to finally be able to set the record straight – the G-spot does exist. It is important to find the G-spot of a woman if you want to fulfill all your sexual fantasies. When you find and hit her G-spot, you will give her the ultimate orgasm. You will drive her wild with ecstasy that she loses control of her body. You’ll make her so happy putting her in a state of euphoria. It’s like casting a spell on her. She will be under your command. Once you’ve succeeded pleasing her and hitting her G-spot, you can ask her to do whatever you want. You need to focus on pleasing her first. In the end, your pleasure will be so much sweeter!
Some guys can’t find the G-spot because of the following reasons:

1. They are not aware that it exists. (G-Spot Part 1)
2. They are not eager to please. These guys are takers and not givers. You need to turn on a woman first. G-spot can easily be located when a woman is aroused and wet. For a great slide using your fingers, you can use water-based lubricant/jelly.
3. They watch and learn from too much porn. Most of the stuff you see in porn can’t be done in real life.

I received emails from couples asking me to discuss a little bit more about the different sex positions to hit the G-spot. So Mae and I decided to do this video to demonstrate to you some of our favorite sex positions. Some might not work for you. The key here is for you to be creative. Be adventurous and have fun! It may take time but you will eventually find and hit the G-spot. I also got lots of emails from girls asking me about the G-spot vibrator (Gigi by Lelo). For girls who want to find their G-spot, Gigi is the best toy for you. You can use it solo or with a partner.

Most women lose interest in sex. Guys wonder why their girlfriends/wives are not as horny as they used to be. It’s because they haven’t found the G-spot. Clitoral and G-spot stimulation are two different things. If you’re a girl and you’ve never experienced G-spot orgasm, you’re missing the most intense pleasure you could ever possibly feel in your life.

Have you found the G-spot?

 

Since I appeared on Boy Abunda’s show called Bottom Line, all my followers on Twitter and Facebook kept asking me why I was so happy in that episode. The special guest that night was Dr. Agnes Bueno, a human sexuality expert. As one of the guest panelists, we were given the chance to ask 1-2 questions to Dr. Bueno. I didn’t miss a beat and I grabbed the opportunity to ask this question, “does the G-spot really exist? “ I know it exists based on my personal experience. In fact I stimulate my G-spot everyday and every night. I experience intense and powerful multiple orgasms whenever I masturbate using my fingers or my Gigi toy (Lelo G-spot vibrator) I get so wet to the point of ejaculating and squirting! It just overflows! So I know deep in my heart that the G-spot exists! But Mo Twister and his sidekick Dr. Gan believe otherwise. I was trying to help out a caller on his podcast last February. I told him how to stimulate the G-spot and what are the best sex positions to hit it. But Mo twister cut me off and said that the G-spot doesn’t exist. I was so disappointed! I know mine does! So when Dr. Agnes Bueno answered my question on Bottom Line, I was anxious to find out what she had to say. She was a human sexuality expert and she should know better, right? It was a moment of truth for me. And she answered, “Yes, the G-spot exists. It only appears when a woman is aroused.” There you go Mo!

So what exactly is a G-spot? It is a bean-shaped spongy tissue located about 1 ½ inches inside the anterior wall (top) of the vagina. It swells and becomes prominent when a woman is turned on and aroused. It is an erogenous zone when stimulated will give a woman a powerful orgasm. It gives her a climax that’s far more intense than a clitoral orgasm. G-spot stimulation can give her multiple orgasm and make her ejaculate lots of fluid. Some women even squirt. There are simple ways to stimulate the G-spot:

1. “Come Hither” motion – insert your index finger or middle finger inside the vagina as far as it will easily go. Insert about 1 ½ inches of your finger. Then crook it up toward yourself in a “come hither” motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. Touching it will cause a woman to react with pleasure. It will also help you find the G-spot if you put lubricant (EZ Jelly) on your fingers for easy slide. The warming sensation of EZ Jelly will turn her on and make her even more wet.

2. Sex Positions – Woman on top sex positions can give the woman control. Cowgirl and its variations, are great for hitting the G-spot because the woman can angle her hips just right, allowing her to find the position that feels best to her. She can try leaning forward or back while adjusting the speed and pressure applied to the G-spot. Be careful when you do the reverse cowgirl (facing opposite direction) because this might permanently injure the penis. So go easy. Dog style is also a good position.

It takes time to find the G-spot of a woman. Some women are not even sensitive to G-spot stimulation. So don’t get discouraged if you don’t get any special reaction. If you can stimulate her clitoris, then you can definitely make her orgasm. But if you can stimulate both, G-spot and her clit, you’ll bring her to heaven and leave her wanting for more!

Dear Ms. Mocha,

I’m BJ, 20 y/o guy. I always practice safe sex with my girlfriend who’s also my classmate. During our 1 hr lunch break we go to her condo unit and fuck. We don’t have enough time for foreplay kasi we need to go back to class. She gives me blowjob and pag tinigasan nako I start penetrating her. (Btw, thanks sa video mo dahil marunong na syang magsuot ng condom sakin using her mouth.) I’m having a hard time getting inside of her kasi hindi pa sya basang-basa. My question is- is it ok to use baby oil as lubricant to make her wet? Ok lng din ba na lagyan ng oil yung condom para mas dumulas? Thanks Ms. O. Hope to hear from you.

BJ

 

Dear BJ,

I’m so happy to know that you and your gf are practicing safe sex. I’m also glad that she learned through my video how to put on a condom by her mouth. Don’t you think it’s so hot?? Anyway, it’s really important that you asked this question- “is it ok to use baby oil as lubricant when using a condom?” I’ve talked with a lot of guys and they also don’t know the answer. For those of you who already know the answer, I applaud you! For those of you who don’t, the answer is NO. It’s NOT safe to use baby oil as lubricant while using a condom. It will break the condom! Skin lotions, Vaseline and massage oils will weaken the condom. Make sure that your hands or your gf’s hands are clean, free from oily substance, before she even touches the condom. A slight amount of oil can tear the condom.

You should always use water-based lubricants/gels . They’re even available in 24-hour convenience stores. Read the product carefully and check if it says water-based on the package/bottle.

Enjoy!

Mocha

Here’s what happens if you use baby oil with condom. Watch the video

 

CONDOMS ARE HOT!

Hey O-peeps! As promised, I’m going to start answering your emails about your sex problems and sexperiences through video here on my blog. Our first email sender is from “Horny Christine”:

Dear Mocha,
First of all i just wanna say I am an avid fan of your Blog. It’s my daily routine to check if you have a latest post. I am 19 years old girl and love to have sex with my BF. We do it almost every day. You might say i am very malandi but i am not. I only do it with my BF. We love Oral Sex. I love the smell of his penis and i think he love the smell of my pussy as well, i guess, because he eats me everytime we do sex. I remember one time we were stuck in a traffic and i was so horny while he is driving i ate him. Sarap na sarap sya that muntik na kaming mabangga. But as the time goes by my friends in my school were starting to get pregnant and some have itchiness on their pussy. I became worried so i started doing my research. And i found out that Withdrawal is very dangerous. I open this to my BF and suggested that we use condom. So we tried but every time pinapasok na nya d sya nagtatagal at tinatanggal nya ang condom, hindi daw masarap. Syempre d naman ako maka hindi bec i dont want him to get mad i want pa rin to have sex with him. But deep inside me i am so so so worried, everytime na dedelay ako ng days i am bothered pero di ko masabi sa kanya. I still want to have a safe sex. I want to use a candom para atleast i am not worried after. Help me Mocha how am i gonna convince my bf to wear condom at the same time he will be happy and satisfied pls help

Horny Christine

Dear Horny Christine,

Thank you for sharing with us your sexperience. It is not safe to have sex without protection. You can get pregnant or might contract STDs (sexually transmitted disease) and HIV/AIDS. Yup, you’re right when you said withdrawal method is NOT safe. Using condom is the most common and easiest way to protect yourself. A lot of guys complain that condoms are not pleasurable. They say they don’t feel good. But if you explore the market you will discover there’s a whole world of condoms out there that you can choose. Here are some of my suggestions:

1. Ultra Thin Condoms – are very thin and there is enough lube on it that you don’t need any lubricant. They are just as effective as the regular thick condoms. In fact, some of the ultra thin condoms received top ratings for strength and reliability. Guys will feel like they’re almost not wearing one.

2. Big Bulb -looks like a light bulb. The large closed end of the condom allows greater movement for him. It also creates stimulation by natural friction in the most sensitive areas. With each stroke during intercourse, the extra material slides against the head of the penis. The bulb at the tip of the condom allows extra room for lubricant for a great slide. Don’t put too much lube so the condom won’t slide off.

Next time you have sex with your bf, try the ultra thin or the big bulb condom. You and your partner will enjoy sex without worrying about getting pregnant or STDs. Always remember, SAFE SEX is the BEST! Stay horny, stay healthy!

Mocha

 

Please feel free to comment below if you have any questions, comments or suggestions. You can also email me your sex problems or share your sexperiences thru mochauson@aol.com

 

I get a lot of questions on my email (mochauson@aol.com), Facebook and Twitter regarding the RH Bill. What is RH Bill? Why do I support it? Would it help solve poverty in the Philippines? Does it promote abortion? Why is the Catholic Church against it?

The Mocha Girls and I are very active in promoting RH Bill for the following reasons:

1. Our country is over-populated. Whenever I see street kids begging for food and money, I wonder where their parents are. What will happen to these kids as they grow up? Who will educate them if their poor and uneducated parents are busy making more babies? The unemployment rate in our country continues to increase and so does criminality.

2. Teenage Pregnancy is increasing. A lot of young high school girls are getting pregnant. She maybe our neighbor or even a relative. When I first published my email (mochauson@aol.com), I received lots of interesting stories. Some were good, hot sexperiences and some were pretty disturbing. A young 15 year old girl emailed me and told me that she’s troubled because her period’s delayed. She told me she just had unprotected sex. They did NOT use protection cuz her boyfriend said that condoms were unpleasurable.

3. Ignorance of the RH BILL. I asked my brother what does he think of the RH Bill. He said he’s anti-RH Bill. I asked him why? “Because our school said so”, he said. My younger brother is studying in UST, my alma mater. Like any other students, he is clueless about the RH Bill. He said that the RH Bill was bad or evil because the priests say so.

Yes, there are many people who are AGAINST RH BILL because of plain IGNORANCE. I will not explain RH BILL like what you see in other blogs. But I will try my best to simplify & summarize the RH BILL for everyone to simply understand it.

What is RH BILL?
RH BILL or REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH BILL summary of provision:

1. SEX EDUCATION is required from grade five to fourth year high school.

Anti-RH BILL supporters say- It is the parents’ responsibility to teach their children about sex education.

I SAY- How can parents teach their children about SEX if they themselves are uneducated. Would you rather be taught about sex by your parents or a professional teacher? In a CLASS D & E society, would you trust the irresponsible parents to teach their children about sex? They can’t even teach them proper hygiene so how would they teach SEX in a very responsible way?

Even if the RH Bill was passed, the parents still have the right to decide whether to allow their child to take Sex Education. At least the government is giving them access to sex education.

2. CONTRACEPTIVES (PILLS , CONDOMS and IUDs)

Anti-RH say – Natural Family Planning is the only acceptable method in God’s Eyes.

I say- Religion is something debatable. Not all Filipinos are Catholic. Educate the people and let them be the one to decide which is moral or not.The Government through Barangays will not only educate the people but the Government will make sure the Contraceptives are available especially to the poor areas. 

3. Although abortion is recognized as illegal and punishable by law, the bill states that, “the government shall ensure that all women needing care for post-abortion complications shall be treated and counseled in a humane, non-judgmental and compassionate manner.”

Anti- RH say – RH Bill promotes abortion.

I Say- the “right” use of Contraceptives will PREVENT abortion. “Sinners” , as how the church would call them, should not be condemned. They should be educated and helped so they wouldn’t repeat their mistake.

What pisses me the most is that Anti-RH insists the RH Bill promotes sex. Such hypocrites! Sex exists everywhere! That’s why we need to educate the youth about it. I receive lots of emails about girls being lied to by their boyfriends. Saying that condoms are not cool, not effective and not as fun and can even trigger AIDS/HIV just so they can have unprotected sex! One girl told me that she and her bf are doing the withdrawal method. The guy pulls out his penis from the vagina when he’s about to come. The problem is guys can ejaculate without them even knowing it. Pre-cum or pre-ejaculate is a clear fluid that comes out of male’s penis before they ejaculate. Although it is a small amount the girl can still get pregnant and contract STD’s (sexually transmitted disease) from it. That’s why the withdrawal method is NOT effective. Proper use of CONDOM can prevent STDs and unwanted pregnancy.

Lastly, we should all be alarmed by the increasing incidence of AIDS/HIV in our country. Research say there’s an estimated 11,000 undocumented and unreported HIV and AIDS cases in the country since 2008. The incidence of HIV and AIDS in the Philippines is hidden and growing. Now that’s pretty scary. Did you know that AIDS/HIV symptoms take years (even 10 years!) before they appear? So, if you had unprotected sex 9 years ago, it is still possible for you to have HIV/AIDS now. That’s why I encourage everyone to practice safe sex. Use condom! These facts can only be learned thru Sex Education and not through our parents alone. Only Sex Education experts can provide us with this kind of information. This is what I am fighting for- BE EDUCATED and LIVE FREE!

As I have said, there are more explanations regarding the scope of RH BILL. I don’t claim to be an expert on this. I want you to understand and embrace the RH BILL. Do some research and study the RH BIll. Don’t just believe the PRIESTS. RH Bill not solely the answer to POVERTY in our country. But this one helps a lot. So whether you are a celebrity, an Executive or an ordinary Citizen – it’s time to stand against what the Catholic Church is saying.

Forgive me father, but YOU have sinned. You have been lying to the people. RH Bill is Pro-Life!