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Vibrators are for educated, responsible and horny women (like me). These “massagers” have been around a lot longer than we think. The first vibrator was invented in the late 1800′s and was used to treat women with medical condition called “hysteria”. Vibrators have come a long way since then. Today they come in different colors, shapes and sizes. Studies show that vibrator use is associated with more positive sexual function. Here are the important benefits of using a vibrator:

1. Helps a woman discover her hot spots/erogenous zones
2. Helps a woman achieve orgasm
3. Boosts sexual confidence
4. Promotes lubrication in the vagina thus decreasing chance of cervical infections.
5. Relieves stress (endorphins released during orgasm)
6. Natural cure for insomnia (serotonin & oxytocin released after climax)
7. Decreased chance of contracting STDs
8. Lowers the risk of teenage pregnancy

The list goes on. Vibrators/toys bring back the fun in the bedroom. Of course, vibrators will never replace the real thing. Men should not be intimidated by them. The purpose of vibrators is to allow women to discover their body and explore their sexuality. This will enable her to enjoy sex more. Enjoyable sex for women means more sex for men.
Check out my newest toy from LELO:

By now, I’m pretty sure you’ve seen or heard of Gangnam Style. It has become a global phenomenon and everyone jumped on the bandwagon including the MOCHA GIRLS (GANGNAM STYLE VIDEO). Ever since Gangnam Style conquered the net, people still kept mishearing the lyrics Oppa Gangnam Style to Open Condom Style. Since I love condoms, I decided to make a sexy parody ad – Open Condom Style with the Mocha Girls. The video is now 4th most popular on youtube reaching 130K views in 2 days. Some people loved it they thought it was fun and sexy. Some people hated it and accused me of promoting sex.

Yup! May is Masturbation Month. Masturbation or Vit. O, a term which I constantly use on Twitter, is the act of stimulating one’s organ for the purpose of pleasure. It’s also called self-pleasure or solo sex. According to a research, babies of both sexes started masturbating in the womb. But boys are the only ones who can be caught while aroused on the sonogram. See? It’s a natural thing and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s sad that some people think masturbation is dirty. In fact, it is healthy – lowers blood pressure, stimulates production of good hormones  (endorphins), promotes well-being, strengthens immune system, alleviates menstrual cramps, natural sleep aid, etc.  Female masturbation is still taboo. Women still reluctlantly talk about it. Some women deny it. Some women think it’s a degrading act. And some women are just clueless. Importance of female masturbation:

1.explore her erogenous zones

2.discover different strokes that will help her reach orgasm

3.increase libido/sexual desire -allows her to enjoy sex with her partner more -confidence in her body and sexuality

4.sexual independence

There are several techniques in female masturbation- use of hand, soft objects and sex toys. Watch out for my review on some of the coolest toys you can buy online. In the meantime, here are some photos of the Mocha Girls and me from our Boracay pictorial last week.

Summer in the Philippines has never been this hot! The highest recorded temperature in Metro Manila so far this year is 35.9 degrees Celsius, and the highest in the country is 38.4 degrees Celsius registered at Clark in Angeles, Pampanga. According to PAGASA, this isn’t even a heat wave yet! Prepare yourselves to endure the sweltering heat for at least one more month. Relief may come in during the second half of May at the earliest and it’s the wet season again!

Never the less, summers are the time to relax, to enjoy and feel light! Here’s the trailer of my upcoming indie movie entitled BUTAS 2, directed by Alejandro “Bong” Ramos, to satisfy your summer hunger! Watch out for the premiere night on May 16 at the UP Diliman Theater! Enjoy!

Here’s the unedited video of my interview on the tv show WASAK hosted by Lourd De Veyra and Jun Sabayton:

BASTOS DAW is my favorite song of ANDREW E. He’s a rap icon and he’s one of my idols in the music industry. I really like his open-minded and hilarious style of rapping.  His critics accuse him of being “bastos” or indecent because of his songs/lyrics. But Andrew E. was right by saying, “my songs are dirty if you have a dirty mind”. In my own translation- walang bastos sa bukas na kaisipan. In our present Entertainment Industry,  I am considered as the most “BASTOS” performer. The Mocha Girls and I have been banned in several occasions. We were scheduled to perform in an alumni homecoming for an all-boys school. The priests reprimanded the alumni batch organizers for getting us because they said we were insinuating sex.  And so they canceled the Mocha Girls.  Instead, they invited “sexy stars” in their skimpy outfits to perform mediocre dance numbers. Hypocrisy don’t you think? In another instance, one entertainment venue in Ortigas, with the same concept of Metrowalk and Bluewave banned us after performing for a radio tour/show. The owners said we were “TOO BASTOS”. They claimed to be “Born Again” christians and said they can’t tolerate such “worldly” performance. It’s a nightlife & entertainment place for crying out loud! It’s not a church! You’re selling booze! People drink and get drunk! Don’t you think that’s “worldly”? Now that’s ultimate hypocrisy!

I maybe the “horniest performer” out there but I am WHOLESOME. What is “wholesome” anyway? According to Merriam-Webster dictionary:

1. : promoting health or well-being of mind or spirit

2 promoting health of body

3 : sound in body, mind, or morals

4. clean

I am promoting health and well-being. I have morals! I maybe horny but I have rules and principles. I am Pro-RH (Responsible Horniness):

1. Never mess with guys/girls who are not single (unless their partners are willing to share)

2. Always use protection. Great safe sex is the best!

3. For my young followers, stay virgin as long as you can. Nothing wrong with being a “solo” artist. Practice makes perfect.

Sad to say, we live in a world full of hypocrites. There are celebrities out there who present themselves as “wholesome” but in reality are professional prostitutes. Give them 150k pesos and they’re yours for a night. I may not present myself as “wholesome” but I don’t fuck for money. There are also some directors of TV shows/networks who take advantage of artists. You can be a regular part of that show only if you have sex with the director. Showbiz is a dirty world. Because of the stigma attached to being an entertainer, my management and I are very strict with the Mocha Girls. We don’t entertain “sponsors”, dirty old men, politicians, etc. We don’t tolerate prostitution in our group. This is the reason why former members were axed from the group.

People can say anything they want about me. They can accuse me of being “bastos” – because I promote safe sex, I encourage the youth to use protection (condom), I encourage couples to enjoy sex, I’m fearless, I say what’s on my mind, I’m open-minded, I don’t give a fuck about what people say, etc.  Call me “BASTOS” all you want but I AM NOT A WHORE.

In line with the so-called “Holy Week”, which I don’t think is “holy” anymore (party-time-get-drunk-in-Boracay), I am not going to post nude or sexy images here. Instead, I would like to share with you Mocha Girls new music video of our song “IPADARAMA”. A song which reminds us to appreciate our loved ones while they’re still here. Something to reflect on this season of Lent. Click to watch the video:

The Mocha Girls and I were so proud of our 2012 calendar. Like our 3rd album, the concept was to pay tribute to Filipino women. Filipinas are considered as among the most beautiful women of the world.   They are the “ideal woman”of most men because of their extraordinary beauty and attitude. Filipinas are family-oriented and will strive hard to keep her family intact. Our country is a nation of strong women.

To show some PINAY pride, we decided to use the Philippine Flag symbols as body paint for our calendar. Apparently, once again, this caught the attention of the NHI (National Historical Institute). An official said we were setting a bad example to the youth because we’re TOO SEXY.

Bad example? It really pisses me off every time I hear this accusation from hypocrites. We may be sexy but we are NOT promoting sex. We are promoting SAFE SEX. We are educating the youth to protect themselves. That it’s OK to use condom contrary to what the church says. Sex EXISTS and it’s more STUPID not to talk about it. One of my followers tweeted me and he said that the priests are preaching that masturbation is a sin. Of course it’s NOT! It’s a natural sexual behavior! Everyone does it, including our priests! Masturbation or solo sex is the safest form of sex.  If you don’t like it, then stop it. In order for the youth to be guided accordingly about their sexuality, there should be a separation of church and sex. We need CREDIBLE Professional Sexuality Educators! Attention Mr. President! Stop “NOYNOYING” and Pass the RH BILL NOW before it’s too late!

                                                            MOCHA GIRLS 3rd ALBUM

MOCHA GIRLS 2012 CALENDAR